We all have seen bad feeling on this forum, some of us have been in the thick of it.
Its time to STOP,THINK,FORGIVE,AND REFLECT.
Life has so many bad parts death hunger poverty ect, are forum squabbles really needed, are they worth carrying in to 2008 with us?????.
So this thread is to post forgiving messages,to anyone we seem to have fallen out with this year.
Time to maybe forget and make new friends or recreate old ones.


So i herby say if ive ever offended you by a quote on a post or you thinking im haveing a go at you, then i say sorry to you, ive never meant to hurt you or anyone else for that matter.
So im sending you christmas goodwill and a happier 2008.
Love cherry.

WOW nice thread cherry, what a lovely idea .. but as you quoted petty squabbles are so minor to poverty death etc... so i totally agree with what you are saying. Roll on 2008 i hope its a better year for all of us

love kelly

Thank you ms funt, you know me better than most people, im not mean im not nasty, if i ever have been nasty or appeared to have been its always been done with thought and wisdom to others.
Im hopeing people will take notice of this thread and be adult enough to responde on here, after all kindness isnt hard to achieve, costs bugger all, and it being the season of goodwill i say go for it.

okies cherry of the wild, whats you after ? calling me Ms Funt

Not I. I'm a regular ray of sunshine on this wartorn land of a forum. So there. :P

Think this covers all of them.

I feel cleansed.

In that order? :S

Would you watch Eastenders/Corrie without the fights and scandals? :P

Forget what? Who am I?


Thanks. Merry Chrimbo to you too! Less than 4 days to go... I really should do some shopping.

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Forgiveness is freeing up and putting to better use the energy once consumed by holding grudges, harboring resentments, and nursing unhealed wounds. It is rediscovering the strengths we always had and relocating our limitless capacity to understand and accept other people and ourselves.

- Sidney & Suzanne Simon


A lovely thread WildCherry!


All the time we waste on petty differences... the energy expelled during that time, it's really not worth it. Hate, such a strong word, it doesn't do anything to the people it's directed toward, but it eats away at the person feeling it up to the point of obsession. It's an impotent emotion; they only hurt themselves. Forgiving does not mean forgetting, as we all learn from our mistakes and those of others, but forgiveness allows us to let go of the past and look to the future rather than being anchored by resentment.



When you let go of all the squabbles, things become clearer and it feels like such a relief. When, as sometimes happens,someone who is disagreeing with any action you do refuses to do the same, give them time and one day they'll forgive and feel the same way. Until then, distance yourself and make the progress in life that forgiveness allows.



Don't sweat the small stuff.

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Good thread WildCherry, here's to turning a new leaf - on the forum and in real-life !

Thanks all of you, i just thought it was time to bury many hatchets.

nice thread cherry good time of year to do it xx

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aww lovely thought Cherry hunny.

If you cant forgive and forget at this time of year when can you? ((hugs))

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