For those of us who have already been there, done that, I thought it might be nice to share our advice for a long and happy marriage..... :razz:

I'll start:


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lol - good luck, Mr and soon-to-be-MrsChes!

To keep your marriage brimming,
With love in the loving cup,
Whenever you're wrong admit it;
Whenever you're right shut up.

(Ogden Nash) :razz:

Be the Man!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=34d6PZPIBUs

I've got advice, having been recently there myself....

- Life continues after the wedding. People plan and plan and plan the wedding and completely forget about the till death or court do you apart.
- Know and accept this: the wedding is not about you, you two as a couple or anything remotely related to that. It's about her, so let it be, don't fight it. Probably the only thing you have some kind of control in the wedding is the suit you'll be wearing... and that might be subject to approval as well.
- Patice buddy, patience.
- Develop ADD or worsen it you already have it (i.e stop taking the ritalin)... it has done wonders for me.

Enjoy it, it's fun. Let me know when baby ches comes along, i'll give you some pregnancy tips as well